Spending Time With James

While this happened awhile ago, I wanted to write a little bit about spending time with one of Bill's best friends, James :)

Over Thanksgiving James came to visit his family, and while he was here we were blessed to spend tons of time with him. He came and helped us cook Thanksgiving with Bill's parents, we spent some time in Huntington on the pier, toasted our engagement, and we went to a local pub and ate breakfast and watched soccer.

There is something about James that is relaxing. He has a gentle spirit and you can tell he really listens to everything you are saying. Genuine doesn't even begin to describe him. He is really a pleasure to be around, and no words would do him justice. He is a man trying to figure out life, and is not afraid to discuss his thoughts with you.

I love that I am learning about who Bill is through his friendships, and this one definitely shed some light. James lives up in Portland, so our time with him is very few and far between. We will always treasure him, and were so thrilled to have so much time to be around him.

Bill's parents joined us for the pub breakfast and soccer :)

Thanks for a lovely visit James :) Here's to the next one being as soon as possible!

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